tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17048852.post113859939246794197..comments2023-05-01T06:02:23.394-07:00Comments on Other People's Kids: DisillusionmentDanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12565391786475786128noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17048852.post-1138668201554167102006-01-30T16:43:00.000-08:002006-01-30T16:43:00.000-08:00" And oh yes...remember that disillusionment is no..." And oh yes...remember that disillusionment is not a bad thing. I means that you have been released from your illusions."<BR/><BR/>Yeah, but it was a pretty illusion. Heh.<BR/><BR/>"change tatics and introduce her to some other younger men she might like"<BR/><BR/>Already done. Comments are favorable, but she hasn't gone for the bait yet.<BR/><BR/>"My partner once told me "every foster child lies." I have come to believe this is true in my experience."<BR/><BR/>Oh, lord, yes, they all lie to a greater or lesser degree. Like I said in the post, it was so predictable, and I knew with certainty it would happen. It's just still such a letdown...sigh. I was used to this at one point. I need to get used to it again, I guess.Danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12565391786475786128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17048852.post-1138639828281539752006-01-30T08:50:00.000-08:002006-01-30T08:50:00.000-08:00I'm ready o gear up recrut some buddies and head o...I'm ready o gear up recrut some buddies and head on down to give the boyfriend a littel scare,give him what he deserves. Nothing much a gag here a chain there maybe well you get the idea... I know I know I can't do that but it would be fun to think about anyhowAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17048852.post-1138634775317810962006-01-30T07:26:00.000-08:002006-01-30T07:26:00.000-08:00We all knew the other shoe would eventally drop..i...We all knew the other shoe would eventally drop..im afraid to say thou that i sorta had a feeling she was more active than you can ever imagine..Hang in there and dont let the little turd rile you up too much...change tatics and introduce her to some other younger men she might like..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17048852.post-1138629313592491682006-01-30T05:55:00.000-08:002006-01-30T05:55:00.000-08:00And oh yes...remember that disillusionment is not ...And oh yes...remember that disillusionment is not a bad thing. I means that you have been released from your illusions.Yondallahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10375966725096729570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17048852.post-1138629245081581762006-01-30T05:54:00.000-08:002006-01-30T05:54:00.000-08:00Hi Dan,I don't have any advice on the boyfriend th...Hi Dan,<BR/>I don't have any advice on the boyfriend thing...but I have a word of encouragement. In my case I have noticed that every kid placed with us feels happier and safer once they have pissed us off. Remember when you said that "Josie" was happy being grounded? She is going to be even happier when she gets the message "I am mad as hell (REALLY) and we are keeping you." I have learned to say (well, yell), "I am pissed. And you are loved and safe. And don't even try talking to me for the next hour because I FEEL like throwing something. Now go to your room and remember that I am FURIOUS and you are safe here!!" <BR/><BR/>I have written a lot about this in my blog.Yondallahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10375966725096729570noreply@blogger.com